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Bondage – How to Get the Best Out of This Fetish?

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Bondage can be a very fun fetish, but how do you get started if you’ve never tried it before?

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It is easy to be intimidated by seeing the thousands of things you have around the world. But, I think you should not be surprised right away – in fact, the best form of slavery is the one that starts slowly and starts to get worse, or better (which is the feeling that fits best) over time. Check out these great tips for beginners of BDSM.

No, you do not have to go out and buy meters and yards of rope. Many companies make bondage kits for beginners and, in my opinion, they are excellent. In this kit you find everything to make the best use of this new fetitche, with good quality.

Sex Games

Playing sex games with your partner can be a lot of fun, and not only can you and your lover take you on a night of intense passion, but can also teach you more about you and your partner, especially in bed.

Sex does not always have to be serious, which is why a game can be a lot of fun as a fetish – it allows you to remember what sex is having fun. You will be amazed at how much you can discover about yourself and your lover when you play this type of game.

Bondage By The House

In fact there are several things that you can use for a BDSM fetish in your home , but be careful, not everything is recommended.

It is much better to obviously use things done for the purpose to which you are using it, such as lubricants rather than spit, and even though it is more expensive, it can be a good investment for your relationship – just like any other toy sexual.

However, here are some things you can use:

  • A silk tie can act as a blindfold, or, for holding hands or feet;
  • A spatula can be a great pestle;
  • A duster can also be used as a massage object.

When you begin to dramatize the BDSM fetish, and domination and submission, the word “stop” does not always mean stop. When you’re getting into a bizarre sex fetish, it’s so important to have a thing called “safety word”. The word functions as a gateway to a given situation, it has the same literal meaning as the word “stop.”

Before you even start the relationship with your partner, match that with your word of safety. Make sure this is not something that you commonly use in sexual intercourse, such as “no” or anything of the sort.

Try a very different fetish. This leaves no doubt as to when the game should be stopped, in fact. Always “honor” the word of safety, even if you think that everything is fine and that no one will get hurt.

BDSM

Author Bio:

Nicolebdsm.com often offers BDSM therapy. There are endless benefits to having such a spiritual and connecting BDSM techniques.  Let me take you on a journey of the mind and body with soft touches and caresses from me.

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