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Most times when a relationship goes wrong<\/a>, both parties are usually blamed, but the lion’s share of the blame mostly goes out to the men in the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Why is that you may ask? The reason is simple. It is because you are expected as the man to take charge of the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Think of it this way<\/a>, you are the captain of that ship and whatever happens to the ship is your fault. That is the reason why most times men end up getting blamed even though they might not be at fault.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I’m well aware that men are not looking for much in a woman; however you may also be making some mistakes that could be causing your relationship<\/a> to sabotage itself thereby causing it to end abruptly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n No man is an island or gets it right and correctly all at once, hence the reason for this article. This article is to point you to some mistakes you must avoid<\/a> if indeed you want to keep your relationship afloat and blazing with love and commitment from your woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There is a delicate difference between men and women. Men are all about logic and reason while women are the creatures with feelings and emotions. This doesn’t mean that men don’t have emotions or feelings, it simply means that their beliefs come from the place of reasoning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Both men and women tend to react differently to situations. While the man’s approach is only to solve the problem and move on, you will find out that women tend to dwell a little longer on the emotional aspect rather than trying to solve the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Don’t blame her. It is only her nature and how she was created. To understand your partner as a man, you must strive to understand her emotions and feelings. It has been said that being with a woman is like being in a school and you can never fully finish learning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, you must realise that it is the efforts that count. You must also be wise enough to know<\/a> when to speak and when you need only to hold her and let your presence be her anchor. Whenever a woman tells you she is fine, it means that she wants to talk and it is not okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You will be making a huge mistake to walk out and say since she said she is fine, she is okay. No, she is not okay, and she needs you to help her out while she is going through what she is feeling. Never leave your partner feeling like she has no emotional support in you, it will bounce back in a very harsh way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Whenever she is going through any emotional tumult, she needs you to be patient and understand. She already feels bad enough already and you shouting at her to get over it just because you can stash your emotions somewhere else is unfair of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Understand that she can’t just get over it and you expecting her to means you probably don’t understand her delicate nature. Women are generally referred to as “feelers”. Don’t ever make the mistake of ignoring her emotions or you being oblivious to how she feels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It is within your capacity, and you have to help her heal. You have to be her emotional anchor, and she needs you to be just that. If you decide to neglect her at this time, have you ever heard of the phrase “Hell has no fury than a woman who is burned”? You just may be brewing world War 4 in your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It is in the woman’s place to be afraid and anxious not in the man’s place. This doesn’t mean that I expect you always to be strong all the time showing no vulnerability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, when you are continually being insecure or afraid, it merely says you are not brave enough to be her emotional anchor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Women generally love security and safety. If she can feel safe and secure with you, then you are on the right track. However, if you are afraid and you try to hide it, your woman would know. It is often said that women generally have a sixth sense that helps her detect danger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you are so scared of committing to her especially after she has laid all her cards on the table, you just might be saying goodbye to her. If you are afraid to try new things with her, it is a huge turn off for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As a man you must remember that courage is not the absence of fear but it is the ability to face your fear and conquer it. Every boy wants to grow up to be a hero, and every woman<\/a> wants a man who will be her hero.<\/p>\n\n\n\n1. You ignore your partner’s emotions and feelings<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
2. Being Afraid or insecure<\/h2>\n\n\n\n